Thursday, February 21, 2013

Dogum Gunu a la Turkiye

OK so I mixed languages in the title but it means celebrating a birthday Turkish style.  That occurred last night with a potluck dinner at our apartment.  The term potluck is apparently unknown in Turkish culture and I found Turks do not follow directions very well regarding party instructions.  I told everyone two things - (1) bring ONE food or drink to share and (2) do not bring me a birthday present.  Our guests came loaded with food dishes, some bringing four or five, and most arrived with birthday presents as well.  What's a girl to do?  Eat and enjoy the gifts, of course!

The food was a great variety including a lot of patlican (eggplant - my favorite).  Most was homemade including a bunch of great dishes from Serin Sakinc, Eren's mom.  She is such a good cook but has an amazingly trim figure.  I don't understand!  We also opened bottles of Turkish wine and had Efes beer on hand along with the ubiquitous Coke.  Ozge Sumer took care of the birthday cake and it was so special.  A very large cake laden with chocolate and crunchy nut and caramel.  Candles and sparklers were lit.  The sparklers were a first in my life of birthdays.  Another first is even more special and that was sharing it with a person who has the exact same birthday (but different year).  This is Carnot Nelson, a professor from Florida who is now at Bilkent in the psychology department.  We happened to discovered we have the same day of birth when we had dinner together a few weeks ago.  So, we celebrated both birthdays together.

Carnot and Alice toast their birth date - February 20

Alice between two Mehmets.  In Turkish is good luck to be between two people with the same name so I expect this picture to bring me luck for the coming year.

Some of the massive amounts of food at the party - eggplant kebab on left and a type of borek on right.

The Hatirnaz family - Haluk, Ege and Elif (there were also two Elifs at the party and I failed to get a picture taken between them which would have doubled my luck for the coming year!)

Cevahir, Ege (her former pupil) and Elif

Ozge leads the procession of sparklers with the lit cake behind

Alice and Carnot with the cake

A detail of the lit cake.  Carnot and Alice both blew out the candles (numbered 7 for luck)

The presents were varied and all well chosen.  I got three pieces of jewelery - a ring with beautiful stones from Elif Ozgormus's mom (who also cooked a mean eggplant kebab), an Ataturk pin from the Sakinc's and a traditional silver pin from Mardin from Ege Hatirnaz's parents Elif and Haluk.  Ege is a student we met last summer when we were in Ankara.  He is keen on American culture and English language and we bonded with him during our brief meeting.  I also got two scarfs - from Mehmet Kurt a silk one with a traditional Iznik tile design (Iznik tiles are one of my favorite traditional artworks of Turkey) and a large pashima with muted but beautiful colors from Cevahir and Ozge.  The Sakincs also favored me with a elite and aged bottle of red Turkish wine.  I will be enjoying that all by myself at a later date.  And, Sofia (Zulfiya) Sahin was extremely generous with a large glass plate painted with an historic Ottoman scene from a miniature.  This involves young men being carried around chased by other men with large and long swords.  Yes, those knowledgeable of Ottoman culture will know this is a painting of the circumcision ceremony of two sons of a Sultan.  It is actually beautiful and looks great in our very underdecorated apartment living room. 

Showing off the ring from Yasar Ozgormus

Wearing one new scarf (the Iznik print) while admiring the other (the pashima)

The plate with a reproduction of the Ottoman miniature of the circumcision ceremony

Alice with master chef Serin Sakinc

Ozge and Alice (wearing both new pins - Ataturk and the silver flower)

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